Sometimes, the most meaningful conversations start with a story. For children, books are often the doorway to understanding new ideas, people, and experiences. Spend A Day with Alex by Dr. Ralph “Defender” Morales, a.k.a. Dr. Mo., is one such story, a gentle, heartwarming book that opens up conversations about autism in homes and classrooms in a natural, age-appropriate way. Through Alex’s eyes, readers see that every child, no matter how they communicate or express themselves, has something valuable to share.
In the book, readers follow Alex through a full day of familiar routines, playing at the park, splashing in the pool, riding the bus to school, and even eating at his favorite place. Each scene reflects moments that children can easily recognize. Yet what makes Alex’s story special is how he experiences these moments differently. He may not use many words, but his laughter, big smiles, and actions show his excitement, curiosity, and joy. These simple yet powerful expressions provide parents and teachers with an easy way to initiate conversations with children about how people communicate and express emotions in their own unique ways.
When shared at home, Spend A Day With Alex can help families introduce the topic of autism gently and positively. Parents can use Alex’s story to talk about acceptance, kindness, and patience. For example, when Alex giggles at the farm or gives a thumbs up at the hospital, children can learn that not everyone speaks the same way, but everyone expresses feelings and happiness in their own unique way. It helps children see autism not as something different to be confused over, but as a part of the natural diversity in how people experience life.
In the classroom, the book becomes an excellent teaching tool. Teachers can use it during reading time to start age-appropriate discussions about inclusion and empathy. After reading, questions like “How did Alex show he was happy?” or “What do you do when you’re excited?” invite students to reflect on both similarities and differences. By connecting Alex’s experiences to their own, students learn to respect each other’s ways of communicating and behaving.
Dr. Mo presents Alex’s story with warmth and simplicity, making it easy for children to relate to. The book reminds readers that understanding doesn’t always come from explanations. It often begins with observation, compassion, and conversation. Whether at home or in school, reading about Alex encourages kids to ask questions, listen carefully, and appreciate what makes everyone unique.
The story also highlights moments of courage. Although Alex goes to amazing places like the park, the pool, and school, there are also times he must visit places for the medical care he needs. Yet through it all, Alex shows resilience and courage. His journey teaches young readers that strength often shines brightest in everyday challenges.
If you’re looking for a meaningful way to initiate conversations about autism and inclusion, Spend A Day With Alex is a wonderful place to start. It’s available on Amazon in English and Spanish as Pasa Un Día Con Alex, making it accessible to even more families and classrooms.
Here are the links:
Spend A Day With Alex: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1967441367.
Pasa Un Día Con Alex: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FJH4J73Z.
And the story doesn’t end here. Dr. Ralph “Defender” Morales, a.k.a. Dr. Mo, has a new book coming soon. The next chapter goes deeper, exploring the love and support that help Alex thrive. The journey continues with Alex, His Family, and Yours, Together We Can!
Stay tuned for the next adventure!